I am strong… because I know my weakness.
I am beautiful… because I am aware of my flaws.
I am fearless… because I learned to recognize illusion from real.
I am wise… because I learn from my mistakes.
I can laugh… because I have known sadness.
I am a lover… because I have felt hate and I prefer to love.
As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
I have never understood why people need to put labels on everything. What is a relationship? Like there are so many different types and ways to relate how do you give it a name? What is monogamy? If I reblog a photo of another girl am I cheating? If she kisses another girl is she cheating? I don’t get this shit. Like say for instance if she was to kiss someone else, would I be angry? No. Your lover is still human. There are so many attractive people in the world how could I be angry at her for acting on her impulses. Why don’t humans just be. Like when I wake up and she’s there it makes me happy because she wants to be there. I want her to be happy and I’m not always there. So how could I be angry at someone for wanting to be happy always. I think I’d be angry if she lied though. Like, why don’t humans just do it like that. If you like someone tell them, just tell them everything, say “I’m happy to be here, you are my favourite person to wake up to, i am here consistently and exclusively because you are my favourite and i want to be here”. That means so much more than saying can I tie you to me by a word’s definition and then we have to routinely see each other and we have to break up to have time off or we have to make rules and restrictions and we need a title. Like can you imagine if it was just that simple? Break ups wouldn’t happen no one gets dumped and when they disappear for a while you still love each because no one had to say I don’t love you anymore. No one had to lie. No one had to say its not working when it is because sometimes things work but not forever and when they stop working we shouldn’t be sad, we should be gratefull that it worked while it did and respect it and then go exploring until we stumble on the next thing that works.